Drawbacks of having threesome with other men or women

Drawbacks of having threesome with other men or women

Having threesome is one of the most desired fantasies for every men and women. However, threesome not only brings joy and excitement and fulfill your desires, but also leads in creating some serious issues in your relationship.

Threesome is quite very different from regular sex. In regular sex only two persons are involved and they are following the principal of giving and taking. One is giver and the other partner is receiver. While in threesome, this is typically a different form of having sex or relationship. When third partner or we can say a guest will be introduced in your bed along with your wife or girl friend, it is quite obvious that some sort of insecurity will develop inside your partner.

Having sexual relations with outsider in front of your spouse may raise strong reason for insecurities, jealous and trust issues, especially when you are giving more priority to guest partner instead of your girl friend or boy friend.

This is a serious issue and must need to discuss before inviting outsider for 3 way. Both partners must need to discuss about the consequences raised while having threesome. Some couples won’t discuss these things and move on with the excitement of having threesome with other guy or girl along with their partners. And while having threesome, they may have some issues like they are not comfortable to see their partners with others going intimate. Each and every person has its own tolerance level, and that’s why it is important to discuss these issues or limitations before inviting the third guest for having threesome. If you enter in threesome without discussing these limits, your threesome session will start with having fun but unfortunately ended up by hurting you and your partner. Relationship between you two won’t be the same, instead there are some trust and jealous issues created in that threesome session.

Second thing is some people will invite their close friends for the game of tinder for threesomes, which is not an ideal thing. Always invite that person who is not emotionally attached with you or your partner to join your threesome. It can bring your guest or your partner close to each other and might also get emotionally and physically attachment with each other.

Threesome is recreational sex that needs a lot of attention and awareness while going intimate with outsider along with your partner. Lots of people won’t think it seriously and avoid talking or discussing regarding their limits and comforting zone before having threesome. But when this affect their relationship and they lose their trust level to their partners, they start thinking about the boundary. But it’s been too late to discuss, because the damage has already been done and issues have already created between you and your partner.

So, it is highly advised to discuss your boundaries or ask your partner comfort or tolerance level before inviting third person for threesome.

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